I spend my time blog hopping at times, hoping to help random people facing times on their lives.
Perhaps it's my own regrets that I do this but here goes!
1) P - Patience 2) O - Observe 3) S - Speech and communication 4) I - Interaction 5) T - Thankful 6) I - Intellect 7) V - value and treasure 8) E - Expression
I hope something along here may help in your life. Now or future. I used to think my husband now ( then ) didn't suit me, communications broke down and what was worst he had an physical affair.
2 years later, I chanced upon our old photos, and realized he's always been there, just not the same focus, not the same way as I wanted it.
Point I want to bring is, partner, family, everyone is an individual. Maybe he was working hard to stabilize a family? Maybe she was just screaming for attention. Needs changes, focuses changes. Family or spouse or friends, keeping a similar goal is the "right" frequency many people talk about.
We may think differently, but it's just another angle of life.
Ps. I forgave him in the end and finally had a chat, after two years, he waited of course. Realized the differences came in the inability to express and understand leading to many negative changes on both parties. Shall It be the past or the future, remember you are never truely alone!
Just a general story! Random as it is! Remember stay positive!!
Hi:) thanks. I am actually very happy and positive now :) personally I do not believe in forgiving people whom have betrayed my trust many times because I think broken trust is very hard to rebuild. At least it is so for me. I believe in looking forward. But thanks for ur story.:)
Hi ChOcObO,
ReplyDeleteI spend my time blog hopping at times, hoping to help random people facing times on their lives.
Perhaps it's my own regrets that I do this but here goes!
1) P - Patience
2) O - Observe
3) S - Speech and communication
4) I - Interaction
5) T - Thankful
6) I - Intellect
7) V - value and treasure
8) E - Expression
I hope something along here may help in your life. Now or future. I used to think my husband now ( then ) didn't suit me, communications broke down and what was worst he had an physical affair.
2 years later, I chanced upon our old photos, and realized he's always been there, just not the same focus, not the same way as I wanted it.
Point I want to bring is, partner, family, everyone is an individual. Maybe he was working hard to stabilize a family? Maybe she was just screaming for attention. Needs changes, focuses changes. Family or spouse or friends, keeping a similar goal is the "right" frequency many people talk about.
We may think differently, but it's just another angle of life.
Ps. I forgave him in the end and finally had a chat, after two years, he waited of course. Realized the differences came in the inability to express and understand leading to many negative changes on both parties. Shall It be the past or the future, remember you are never truely alone!
Just a general story! Random as it is! Remember stay positive!!
Hi:) thanks. I am actually very happy and positive now :) personally I do not believe in forgiving people whom have betrayed my trust many times because I think broken trust is very hard to rebuild. At least it is so for me. I believe in looking forward. But thanks for ur story.:)
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